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12 Years | Breaking The Stigma

(12 years) When this day arrives, itโ€™s always hard to know how much I want to share with people. I struggle with new people in my life knowing about me, truly and deeply. Because of the stigmas our society holds onto about alcohol and drug addiction, itโ€™s nerve wracking to open up. When people find out about this part of my life, they usually are very surprised. โ€œWait, YOU are an alcoholic, and now you donโ€™t drink and are completely sober?โ€  Itโ€™s usually the same response, which is totally human & okay. I expect and welcome people to ask me questions since I know this is usually a surprise.  After that, either the same people are super supportive and donโ€™t treat me any differently, or they start to change. And the latter is a big reason why I donโ€™t talk about my sobriety publicly. Itโ€™s not that itโ€™s a secret, itโ€™s just that it is such a sacred part of who I am, and I dread people treating me differently because of it. But truly, the stigma will stay around if we ...